Call of duty

So this game has consumed my life and not because I actually play but because my boyfriend does. When we are at his house he plays and I watch or blog or do homework and on some night I just go upstairs to bed. I've spent a lot of time with S and were basically official so I guess the next question why can't I tell him that I really need him to be here on Friday rather than just saying I would like you to be there. Anyone?